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Written by Carol Chapman   
Tuesday, 08 September 2009

ImageAny woman who is going through menopause recognizes that ‘wanna stay’/’wanna go’, push me/pull you tension that shifting hormones bring.  Am I withering on the vine, or am I just preparing for a new burst of vitality? more than one woman has asked herself.  S’not always that easy to know which it is.

Our member, Carol Chapman, humorously captures those menopausal, schizophrenic impulses in this poem.  It is sure to make you chuckle!  

 

 

 

A midlife crisis
or woman in bloom?
Can't feel the difference
as I heat up the room...

am I hot cuz i'm cool
or hot as a rule??
cuz my temperature's rising
and I feel like a fool!

Face getting red..
heart beating fast...
sweat beads rolling...
I need a cold glass!!

Emotions all over,
never knowing the whys...
nothing is right
Hey....check out those guys!

Don't wanna feel old,
still feel useful and vital..
still have some good years,
just a tad homicidal...

Try to laugh it all off..
make some sense of it all
one thing is sure...
I'm having' a BALL!!!
 
 
Carol Chapman has just started a new life in Austin, Texas after a divorce ending a 27 year marriage.  What brought her to Austin to make a new start?  She reunited with her high school boyfriend with whom she is happily living along with a dog, 3 cats. and his 13 year old son.  Having raised her own children, she has morphed into quite the stepmom.  Carol is certain that her menopausal journey is a big reason she’s had the gumption to embrace all these changes.


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