For those single midlifers among us, there is one question that occurs most often when we are in the dating scene:  Am I settling?  Is this really the right guy for me?  And of course, we most often ask that when things may not be going so well.  The temptation is to kick that guy to the curb if we find ourselves in that situation.

Well, our WomenBloom expert on all things relationship, Dr. Pam Monday, has some very wise things to say on this subject.  In fact, much of what she says is valuable even if you're married or in a long term relationship.  Dr. Monday is a therapist in Austin, Texas.